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Career Tips - Winds of change

Winds of change!

Monday morning…blues at work, you wake up feeling lousy. Hurry, scurry and you finally make it to office half an hour late!

You just seem to be settling down when you are summoned. Your boss wants you to do the project no one else wants and there’s no way out of it. This was the last thing you wanted to happen, “I’m just beginning to settle down” you groan. It gets to you, and it’s no good complaining!

Everyone hates unwelcome change, especially when it’s foisted upon them without warning.

Ways to cope


• Checkmate change

Look for opportunities within change. Think of ways you can benefit from it- this may help you feel better! Remember that change- even unwelcome change- often throws up new opportunities. 
Influencing change to benefit you is what you must negotiate. The change must mean a personal win, a shift to a higher status, better conditions or an opportunity to be upwardly mobile. Only then can you enjoy the change.

• Learning the ropes

It’s best to get a move on, once you are clear about what the change will be. Start working on your part of the deal. Ask for help from someone who knows the facts. If you a shifting to a new place, read up about it.

• Minding change

Don’t keep moaning about the change, when there’s no way out. If the change is truly inevitable, accept it! Sometimes it’s as simple as changing your viewpoint. Instead of fighting change, learn to see it as a new adventure and you will find half the battle won! Settling down may be unsettling, but isn’t living all about adaptation and the like?

• Give yourself room

It is natural to feel apprehensive or even worried and uncertain about change. Talks with people who can give you their advice and support will do you good. Turn your attention for a while to activities not related to change- you are likely to find more stability there. Tell it like it is to folks at home, the support you get from them will definitely keep you in good stead.

• Empathy goes a long way

The change could be difficult for other too, so if you have others in the same situation try to create an atmosphere of calm and good humour. Try not to pass on dire predictions and untrue reports.

• A non-negotiable case

If you cannot reconcile with the change, it’s best to opt out of the situation. When there are too many compromises to make, and the deal does not benefit you in any way, then you may put your foot down and say you can’t. It may mean resigning a job, or saying no to a transfer. 

The change will continue to make its appearance; it’s learning to live with it that finally counts. Remember- Change can never be passé!

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